Today's post is going to be slightly different to my normal fashion and beauty related posts, this one is more about general life. I would say that this is life advice by kary but I don't know if I would take life advice from me, but who knows you might find a wee splash of wisdom in my ramblings.
If you know me in the slightest you would know that I am the worst when it comes to making decisions like seriously from deciding what I want to eat to deciding my future I hate it all. But I am currently being faced with decisions surrounding the rest of my life and next year when I leave school what I'm going to do. This is scary. I used to have my whole life planned out then all of a sudden I have no idea. All my friends seem like they know what their doing and to me they have their lives completely sorted. They maybe think I do but seriously I don't so whenever I'm asked I'll just say 'well after I meet my rich husband....'. I have recently discovered that not knowing what I'm doing with my life is not the worst thing in fact its really common. Don't stress, keep your options open, look at all possibilities and don't commit yourself to something you know you'll hate.
Within this year I have already faced friendship issues, which is just fantastic. I try to keep my friends close and keep them happy since to me friends are one of the things that are most important to me. I am never going to be the best friend in the world, I frequently mess up even when I try not to I always seem to do something wrong. I have never had the best friends in the world until recently, so stupidly I constantly worry about losing my friends to the point that if something is wrong in my friendship I will make excuses and live with it until the point it gets too much and I break, I have nearly lost some of my closest friends by doing this. I feel like I'm getting better at talking to my friends but recently I haven't been again which has ended in some bad situations which now I am pretty sure are sorted (hopefully). What I have learnt over the years of odd friendships is that when you find the couple of good ones even if you mess up really badly will more than likely still be there. Just a quick side note to my friends who do read this: I will never to your face tell you how much you mean to me, I just won't but please know that I love you and even when I mess up, because I know I do frequently, I don't want to lose you. If I storm off most of the time all I want is you to ask if I'm okay even if that's it or if you message me after school to ask. You don't know how happy it makes me just to hear those three words "are you okay".
Family is another thing that is really important to me. I have a good relationship with my mum and occasionally my sister but not my father. I really wish I did get on with my dad but I don't. I tell my mum a lot about my life but not everything, this makes it easy if I have a problem and I have no idea who to trust, majority of the time I talk to my mum. I'm not going to go on about my relationships with my family members, but I will say if you can talk to someone in your family do, it helps so much particularly if they are older and have some life experience.
I'm not exactly sure what this post has turned out as but oh well!!
I have only very lightly touched on three aspects of life in this post, if you want to talk any further about these topics or any others please comment or message me! I am happy to talk to you all!
I hope you have enjoyed today's post. Please let me know of anything you want to see on here, either in the comments or by messaging me. I'm going to leave you with one of my favourite picture quote things.
Until next time, be happy and stay gorgeous :3 xxx
